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The Pursuit of Happiness...
In the recent months I've learned a valuable lesson; happiness. Happiness is completely defined by yo and only you. Too many times, have people been too busy worrying about what everyone else thinks, or what everyone else feels is right for them. Honestly, no one can tell yo how to be happy because everyone has their own view on happiness. I say ignore what everyone says and do three things; follow your gut, follow your heart, and trust in God. With those three things I can bet that you turn out the happiest you've ever been. Don't let anyone else define who you are, you are your own person and no one should be able to take you away from that. People may ask, "Well Cloud what is happiness, and how will I know when I have it?"
First off, that was a very good question and I know you all were thinking it, lolz. Secondly, it's very different to describe happiness because each persons definition from another, it's like a finger print. Although there is no real definition, there are a few guidelines or signs that happiness is in your life.
- Your thought and definition of happiness should come from you and ONLY you. NO ONE should be telling you how you should live your life, how you should feel, what you should do, who you should be with, etc. Personally, I say fuk dem niqqas! lolz but seriously whatever you do in your life is between you and God. Your life is no ones business but yours and you should treat it that way. Does that mean shut everyone out of your life? Hell no!! It means don't let anyone judge you for what you do in your life.
- Happiness does NOT in any way HARM, HINDER, ABUSE, or DESTROY you. Just because you like doing drugs does NOT mean that you have happiness, it just means that you need something to make you feel happy when you should be naturally happy. True happiness makes you wake up each day with that extra pep in your step. It doesn't hurt you or anyone around you. Happiness can turn your life around, happiness can be the difference between "your fired," and "I love my job." Happiness can pull you thru the storms of life without a scratch on your head .
Happiness is so many things that it is impossible to put it all on here. My advice for anyone looking for true happiness, is to look around; literally take a day for yourself, turn off your phone, your computer, plug out your TV, and just figure out why your not happy and how you can become happy. Trust me, I did it. It took me nearly losing my friends, my family, my dream, and the love of my life to learn this valuable lesson. I'm getting closer to finding that happiness and I look to the future with hope in my eyes and a renewed heart. So keep your head up pplz, I hope you learned something from this, first of many, post. Remember be happy and don't give a dam about what ppl think, Yaaaaaa!!! 8]
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